Search for Local Interracial Singles in Topeka

I am a very relaxed individual that likes to travel and have fun. I believe in respecting all human beings and animals. I still work at my full time job as an accounting specialist, and plan on working for a few more years before retiring. I live by the oath to never say anything you don't mean, because you can never take it back.

I am a divorced father of three great kids who live with me. I like movies, reading, and most kinds of music. I am taking some online classes to try to finish my degree so I hope to be able to get a job that I like soon. Not to say that I hate my job, just not very mentally challenging.

I'm an easy going individual that has leaned the most important things in life are not money, career, or fame...we all have seen those that have some of those things and even those that have all of those things but still yet they don't seem to have that joy and happiness that we all want to find so badly. Living life doing the things that you get the most enjoyment out of and at the same time you are not causing harm or injury to someone else, I believe if we all strive to live our lives this way we could all find the joy and happiness we all are so desperate to find...and to find someone to live this kind of life with is true heaven on earth.

I am open-minded, opinionated, active, intelligent. I enjoy all sports (watching and participating), bicycle riding, museums, junk shops, movies, reading, etc. (you know...the usual stuff)

Hi to share a little about me. I am a black male who is loving, honest, loyal passionate, and humble, but can be agressive and assertive about the things that i want, there is nothing about me that i am not willing to share.

LADIES: It would HELP a lot if up front, YOU indicate in your profile, IF you are only interested in meeting someone local or within a certain distance!

READ MY "COMPLETE" PROFILE! (NOTE: If your profile does not have a photo(s) and/or empty narrative sections, I WILL NOT respond.)

I am the romantic type. There are many sides to me, depending on what is called forward or needed at a given moment or scenario. Depending on the level of activity and intensity with my job as a business professional, I do balance my professional side with my personal side of life. I am a very outspoken person with a sense of vision and direction. I ALSO have an erotically playful side as well. I have a STRONG appreciation for a woman WHO LIKES to wear various types’ intimate apparel, as appropriate.

Two things to note:

1. SORRY, having been asked by some ladies: If I would send for them? “I DO NOT” send for a lady. Not sure what that is all about. Some guys do?
2. "IF distance IS" an issue or challenge for you, I might not be a good match for you, especially if YOU are unable to travel here and of course I travel there. WE both would be involved in travelling to see each other. I think travel SHOULD BE "mutually shared." Fair I do believe.

i AM RETIRED FROM LAW-ENFORCEMENT. VERY OUT GOING AND LOVE MEETING PEOPLE. i DON'T PLAY HEAD GAMES. I RESPECT EVERYONES PERSONAL SPACE. i AM VERY UNDERSTANDING. i ONLY ASK THAT PEOPLE SHOULD NOT TRY TO CHANGE WHO I AM . I WORK WITH WHAT GOD GAVE ME AND MADE ME.

Kind, affectionate, good listener, honest very laid back person, Loves to laugh and make others laugh..