In A Nutshell

i am a divorced black female looking for a good man. i am not into one nite stands. i search for friendship and passion. i like a man who thinks for himself; someone strong and happy with himself.
i want him to be concerned about his health, but not a fanatic. in the past few years, i have gained some weight- so i am working on that. i was never fat, so i welcome someone who can help me reach my goals! i walk, work out in gym, and enjoy my exercise dvds. . i eat better & i feel better. its all good!.
i like thinkers.....i find them sexy... i do enjoy good conversation.....but i'm not into sports. its important that there be great exchanges of information.. it helps in the intimacy department. i like to learn & its quite easy to learn from someone who is different. i'm not into arguments or competition with the opposite sex. its about friendship & growth. i am a positive person who is attracted to someone similar. its hard to deal with negative people (they seem to bring everyone down).
i think that true friendship can lead to the most exciting passion!

The One I Am Looking For

looking for someone intelligent, considerate, nice & health conscious. responsible & yet fun! i love to laugh! seeking a travel buddy for new adventures! i have a good heart & you should also......HONEST and adventurous

I'd Just Like to Add

I'm truly a nice woman! I'm open minded and a true optimist! I've been told i am attractive & do not look my age.....i dont feel it either! i guess most would say I'm shapely with curves....i try to eat well. i juice & eat mostly organic foods. I'm no vegetarian.. (tho i do love the veggies) I'm from the south ..so i enjoy my food & life!

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